Let’s Work Together
Whether you’re planning a conference, hosting a retreat, or finally ready to tell the story you’ve been carrying, I’d love to be part of it.
Speaking Engagements
I speak to women who are tired of performing wellness and ready for something honest. Conferences, retreats, corporate wellness rooms, and faith communities where the goal isn’t just inspiration, but the kind of reflection that lasts.
Audiences I Speak To
Women’s conferences, corporate wellness, faith communities, neurodivergent and parenting spaces.
Topics That Resonate
Naming what you want, the questions we stopped asking, and moving scared.
What You Can Expect
A grounded voice, the C.O.M.B. Method, and a message your audience will carry long after the room clears.
THE 12-WEEK PROGRAM
Comb Through
There was a morning I stood at the mirror and couldn’t do my own hair. Comb Through is the twelve weeks I wish someone had walked with me after that morning. We use First Name, Not Mom as our guide and move through the C.O.M.B. Method together, one phase at a time.
C · Call Her Back (weeks 1 to 3): Notice where you went, and start calling her home. You leave aware.
O · Own Your Time (weeks 4 to 6): The guilt, the time, the boundaries. You leave restored.
M · Move Scared (weeks 7 to 9): Act before you feel ready, and let yourself be seen. You leave visible.
B · Become (weeks 10 to 12): Live as the woman you came back to. You leave whole.
We meet one-on-one twice a month. The weeks in between are yours to practice. Everything is digital, and you’ll need your own copy of the book.
For the woman who has read the book and doesn’t want to do the rest alone.
“This is for all the mothers, new, experienced and becoming. It encourages you to channel your inner self as the woman you thought you once were and wanted to be. It opened up a creative introspection and meditation for me.”
— EJ, Amazon Review
About Qiala
I’m an author, speaker, and quiet guide for women who are holding a lot, and looking for a slower, steadier way to come home to themselves. People come to me not for hype, but for honesty. For language they didn’t know they were missing, and space to think without performing.
Whether I’m on a stage or walking one-on-one with a woman through Comb Through, I bring the same thing to every room: presence, the C.O.M.B. Method, and a deep belief that you are still becoming, and that’s the point.
Work With Me Through the Page
Read the Book
Not every season calls for a session or a stage. Sometimes the most honest first step is sitting with the words on your own. First Name, Not Mom is where this work began, and where the rest is still becoming.
“This is exactly what I needed. It helped me start looking at my own life and realize I needed to make changes.”
— reader
Let’s Work Together
Speaking, Comb Through, or something in between. If something here resonated, tell me what you’re carrying or what you’re planning, and I’ll meet you there.